Happy Independence Day ?

Posted in india with tags , , , , , on August 15, 2009 by misuseoflaw

Indians have always felt proud to be called as Citizens of a country where the Government is OF, FOR and BY the people. But we need to analyze our freedom practically and answer a basic question …. “Are we free ?”

Our country is now 62, matured and experienced. Citizens of independent and democratic India have the following fundamental rights :

1. Right to Equality: Women accused of false “498A” and “DV” cases (mothers and sisters) have no right to maintenance and have nobody to support them. Many of them instead have to work extra hard for supporting the heavy costs of litigation for years. Ironically, the law abuser woman (the “wife”) gets the right to maintenance and house from the husband and also she is allowed to charge the litigation expenses from the husband whose family she has ruined. Where is the right to equality for these women? While these laws were made to benefit women, they are being responsible for torturing much more number of women compared to those they have ever benefitted. Is this not a discrimination against unmarried women who can be tortured by anybody while they have no laws to protect them against this kind of cruelty.

2. Right to Freedom : Freedom of speech comes as a major constituent of it. There is this group of false 498A victims who are not allowed to speak up and express what they are going through. They are given a tag of “Guilty” unless “Proven innocent” which harms their Freedom to the full. This gives the authorities the right to humiliate and harass them because the life of these suppressed beings is in their hands. If they speak against their extortionists, it is them who face further maltreatment by law.

In a country where even a terrorist caught red handed has his RIGHTS, victims of misuse of 498 A and DV, have none ?

3. Cultural and Educational Rights: Victims of false allegation are culturally demoralized and defamed to the extent that they isolate themselves from the society. At times, some of them even commit suicide and this suicide is not considered as being result of a cruelty and it is not covered under any law such as the notorious “Dowry Death Law”.

Trapped in such cases, complete families of the accused have to attend the courts on the ordered dates no matter how busy they are in their job or studies. Such cases continue for years. Eventually many of them have to leave their jobs and give up higher education to handle the litigation. This limits their development on all grounds for years. While all Indian citizens are busy developing themselves, these victims face a setback totally from life and development. It takes a lifetime for them to recover from this trauma and financial burden. Some of them face so much psychological trauma that they become incapacitated mentally and physically.

4. Right against Exploitation : As victims of false accusation, needless to say, these citizens face exploitation everywhere. Everybody can take advantage of the fact that these people are anyway not able to defend their own rights and so they can be taken for a ride easily.

5. Right to Constitutional Remedies: These victims of the so called “Legal Terrorism” have been demanding since years that these laws be reviewed on the grounds that the same are being widely misused. Still, they are not heard and they do not receive any remedy which logically should have been given to them under their “Right to Constitutional Remedy”.

India has gained a lot of popularity for being especially considerate about the rights of special sections or minorities. The victims of Legal Terrorism too are in minority in India right now but their voice is not heard. We also need rights as a minority, we also need privileges and an assurance for safe existence.

In the end, I must say, I am just having one right “freedom of Expression” and I am using it to ask all my fellow citizens, “Should we celebrate the Independence Day the way all Indians do ?” and “ARE WE REALLY FREE ?”

“Raksha” “Bandhan”

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , on August 5, 2009 by misuseoflaw

This article is a Rakhi gift to one such brother who is fighting against Legal Terrorism and who inspires us to reverse the custom of Rakhi ….

Its festival time and everyone is delighted buying sweets and new clothes. Sisters are awaiting a surprize a gift which is more a token of love from their brothers… I am also an Indian girl sitting alone in a corner of my room and browsing over my photo album. I come across the picture taken by my Father on my first Rakhabandhan. I was not even an year old while my brother was just a few years elder. I see myself as a small kid knowing no language but expressing her love towards my brother through my little eyes. My little palms are holding his wrist and tying rakhi to it. I wonder!! at that time I did not know the world, its joys, its sorrows but I knew one relationship …. that of mine with my brother … and that reflected in even the first Rakhi I ever tied to him … He stood there watching me with his ever polite and miraculous smile, this is the smile worth a world for me … I was told that even after tying Rakhi I was not ready to leave his hand. I held his wrist tightly while everyone laughed .. No one realized what I meant … and I just wanted him !!!!

Today, he is not physically present near me, he no more has that smile which meant a world for me … I am not buying sweets or awaiting the festival of Rakshabandhan ….

Two years ago when I last celebrated Rakhi with him, I tied Rakhi on his wrist, now an adult sister fully conscious and responsible, I pledged to be with him always as a support …. There it was …. the same miraculous smile on his face … I felt as if I had everything in this world and needed no more. Just few months later, this happiness vanished from my life. My brother got married and fell prey to the extortion game. We are accused of a crime we have never committed and have been facing humiliation and torture since then. There has not been a single day we have spent peacefully. We have lost health, prosperity and mental peace to a woman who spoiled our lives for no fault of ours. I haven’t seen that smile on my brother’s face since then. Last Rakshabandhan, I just kept his Rakhi in front of My God and prayed to him – “O GOd, I don’t want money, or new clothes or Diamond necklace … just give that wonderful smile back on my brother’s face. Just give him his life back and just wash away those tortures from it… and I will never ask for anything else ever in my life ….. ” God did not grant me what I asked for, but instead gave me something even more precious. He gave me strength and took away my fears. He made me realize that there is a divine power within each of us. But that is effective only when we realize its presence. Now I have the courage to live my difficult life with full stength and fight for justice. This strength has changed my world. Now I don’t feel weak, as I know I cannot afford to be weak; Now, I don’t think about past, no one has ever been able to change it. But I work for the future as ultimately only that is still left and can be still changed ….
Rakhi is not just a Pledge from the brother to protect his sister, it signifies the love of a sister for her brother. It is the sister who pledges to hold her brother’s hand and support him to protect him from all troubles ever coming his way …..

On this Rakhi I pledge, that I will not give up and I will stand with my brother, for his rights, his wishes and his Miraculous smile . I pray to God not just for my brother, but for those hundreds of brothers who have lost their smiles. I request all sisters to remember those moments you have been together, sharing the same blood, the same parents and the same happiness …. I plead to them to stand up for their brothers and not wait for anybody else to come and help us. Help yourself and your brother and let the world feel the strength of Womanhood. There are hundreds of women in India who are defaming Indian woman by ruining innocent families. Let’s prove that against every such woman there are many cultured, modest, honest and courageous women supporting their families and fighting against injustice and Legal Terrorism and making the world realize the worth of Womanhood. In the end what we will achieve is uncertain, but we will definitely achieve the satisfaction that we tried. Let’s give this little gift to our brothers who are fighting against Legal Terrorism.

Guilty unless proven innocent!!

Posted in 498, 498 A, 498 A misuse, DV, avani, avani victim, dowry law, extortion, extortion 498 A, law misuse, misuse, misuse 498, misuse of dowry law, misuseoflaw, victim misuse 498 with tags , , , , , , , , on January 8, 2009 by misuseoflaw

Let me state the crime of many of such 498 A cases accused:

1. They got their son/brother married:  Sorry to say but this makes all indians culprits till they prove their innocence..

2. They harassed the woman for Dowry in her dreams: Some of them heven’t actually ever stayed with the woman who accused them of 498 A…Well, then all Indian people are equally involved in crime as they never know, whose dreams they are going to visit.

3. They have just family, friends, written documents etc as evidence that no harassment was done from their side: What other evidence do you expect them to produce..a signature from the divine? …

4. The guy has parents and siblings: All of us do!!!!…

The above factors make just everyone a criminal…  every Indian is a 498 A criminal according to the eligibility conditions laid above ?……

Calling Women Victims of 498 A

Posted in 498, 498 A, 498 A misuse, DV, avani, avani victim, dowry law, extortion, extortion 498 A, law misuse, misuse, misuse 498, misuse of dowry law, misuseoflaw, victim misuse 498 with tags , , , , , , , , , , on January 8, 2009 by misuseoflaw

We are not heard because we are docile, innocent citizens of this country. Lets join hands and call women’s organizations for help….if they do not help us, they are not helping “women” of this country…..

Lets work together for imposing prenuptial agreements…..that no dowry is either being given, not taken and will never be so by both the parties…..Lets introduce a system where we make educated Indian women work by spreading awareness. If they work, they will not proudly demand the money they get as maintenance. We are women but we still have hands, brains and will to earn…then why make ourselves dependent on the men….. are we not ashamed of this dependence…..can’t we see the women from developed countries who are bread earners of their family?…when we fight for gender equality, can’t we try to be equal by sharing family responsibilities. I know many such women who have made a mark in their families and in society by shouldering all responsibilities with their male counterparts…..these are real Indian women….who deserve to be called Women and who deserve equality as they really are equal!!!!!!!  As an urban woman I was sent to the same school as my brother, and given all facilities at par with him, so I feel proud to be a woman, who earns, and who does not marry for her husband’s money……all Indian women….create an Identity of your own, refuse to give dowry…..and refuse to take maintenance………marry for a relationship, not for dependence…..learn from those women of China, Japan etc……it is their percentage of women who work and are self dependent who make them developed….

With this i conclude….for a new beginning….I call all women victims of 498 A misuse to join hands and change the laws for betterment of
women and not destruction of families

Is 498 A pro Women?

Posted in 498 A, Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , on January 8, 2009 by misuseoflaw

I am a victim of 498 A misuse. I am a female with no so called “Legal” authorities having any concern for my womanhood. I am humiliated by police and law for a crime I have never done. I have been victimized by a woman because she wants my brother’s money. That woman gets maintenance because it is believed she needs it…..as for me, the chances of marriage are jeopardised, my parents are left helpless and financially dessicated and I am working hard to support my family. My brother, who got nothing like a relationship, had a barely 12 days marriage (unconsummated) is paying the price of marrying an ill intentioned woman, who is an LLB by qualification and though would never need to use her qualifications to earn, has misused the same for extortion!!!

!!Can we still claim that Indian laws are for the “benefit” of women?….. “LETS THEN REDEFINE THE WORD WOMEN”….. Woman is just wife…..neither sister, nor mother….its our crime that we have a male relative (brother or son)……and then males are not humans at all?3 women in my family are tortured due to false allegations from an ill minded woman. The torture she claims is visibly not possible …… but that which we are subject to is evident and clear….and she is still not being punished…… instead we are being blackmailed in different ways to agree to her demands of heavy amount of money in the name of STREEDHAN, MAINTENANCE  &  SETTLEMENT AMOUNT…….